RAISING children can be a minefield, especially when they’re ill and supposed to be at school or nursery.

Parents will ask themselves the same question over and over again – are they so ill they must stay at home?

It’s that time of the year when bugs are flying around, and coughs, colds and tummy upsets are common.

But it’s not necessary to keep children at home for every illness, so parents are urged to use their common sense.

Here’s some advice from NHS Choices. Parents should ask themselves these questions:

  • Is my child well enough to do the activities of the school day? If not, keep your child at home.
  • Does my child have a condition that could be passed on to other children or school staff? If so, keep your child at home.
  • Would I take a day off work if I had this condition? If so, keep your child at home.

If your child is ill, it's likely to be due to one of a few minor health conditions. Remember: if you're concerned about your child’s health, consult a health professional:

  • Cough and cold: A child with a minor cough or cold may attend school. If the cold is accompanied by a raised temperature, shivers or drowsiness, the child should stay off school, visit the GP and return to school 24 hours after they start to feel better. If your child has a more severe and long-lasting cough, consult your GP. They can give guidance on whether your child should stay off school. Get more information in Common cold.
  • Raised temperature: If your child has a raised temperature, they shouldn't attend school. They can return 24 hours after they start to feel better. Learn more in Feverish illness in children.
  • Rash: Skin rashes can be the first sign of many infectious illnesses, such as chickenpox and measles. Children with these conditions shouldn't attend school. If your child has a rash, check with your GP or practice nurse before sending them to school. Watch this slideshow of childhood illnesses to help you recognise your child's rash.
  • Headache: A child with a minor headache doesn't usually need to be kept off school. If the headache is more severe or is accompanied by other symptoms, such as raised temperature or drowsiness, then keep the child off school and consult your GP. Read more about what to do about headaches in children.
  • Vomiting and diarrhoea: Children with diarrhoea and/or vomiting should definitely be kept off school until 48 hours after their symptoms have gone. Most cases of diarrhoea and vomitingin children get better without treatment, but if symptoms persist, consult your GP.
  • Sore throat: A sore throat alone doesn't have to keep a child from school. But if it's accompanied by a raised temperature, your child should stay at home. Read more about sore throat.
  • Chickenpox: If your child has chickenpox, keep them off school for five days after the rash first appears. Read more about chickenpox.
  • ​Tell the school: It’s important to inform the school if your child is going to be absent. On the first day of your child's illness, telephone the school to tell them that your child will be staying at home. The school may ask about the nature of the illness and how long you expect the absence to last. If it becomes clear that your child will be away for longer than expected, phone the school as soon as possible to explain this.